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5 Bondage Tips For Beginners

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Bondage sex is incredibly hot and fulfilling, especially if you have erotic fantasies and desires! But how do you have great bondage sex if you are completely new to it? You can still have an awesome time! Follow these tips for first-time bondage sex to ensure you and your partner have a fun time and are totally satisfied in the end.


1. Talk About It
Before engaging in any kind of bondage play, it’s important you and your partner talk about your expectations. What do you want to do to one another, and what are your limits? Do you just want to be tied down to enhance the sensations of sex, or do you want your partner to be dominant and give you orders? Would you enjoy being spanked or having your hair pulled? Do you want your lover to talk dirty? These are things you Sexy Woman With Bondage Handcuffsshould consider before getting too deep in bondage sex. It will ensure there is no miscommunication and everyone is on the same page so things do not go awry.

2. Set The Tone
Bondage has a certain kinky, erotic tone to it, and you should enhance that tone! You can create more ambiance by dressing in a sexy outfit and playing the role of either the Dominant or the submissive (whichever you prefer and you and your lover agree to). Depending on the night, you can be the Dominant babe all dressed in black and holding the whip, or you can be the timid submissive who obeys every order. Either way, play the part and set up the space to accommodate this!

3. Use Bondage Toys
Bondage play can be made much more incredible with the right bondage toys. Bed restraints, handcuffs, ropes, and ribbons are perfect for tying your lover down so you can tease and please! There are also other toys you can use to greatly enhance the experience such as blindfolds, whips, feathers, and paddles. For more advanced players, there are ball gags, collars, bondage bars, and hog ties!

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Dirty Talk / Fantasies
This is a great opportunity for you and your lover to explore sexual fantasies and roleplay! You can easily live out your fantasies by putting on a costume or having your lover do things to you that you have always desired! You just have to be open and honest about what you want. Dirty talk is a great, easy way to make your bondage sex even hotter. You can tell your partner how much you love it when they control you, or how hot it is when they obey your every command.


5. Intimacy & Cuddling
Once the cuffs are off and you and your lover have finished playing, it’s important to spend time cuddling and enjoying each other’s company. This is especially important for couples that engage in rough play or BDSM. It’s healing and refreshing, especially for the submissive partner, to be treated especially lovingly so they know they are appreciated and any kind of punishment was purely for the sexual thrill. If you are serious about bondage sex, this is an important part you should definitely include!

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