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3 Things That Will Ease Your Partner Into Deepthroating

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Ah, a word that puts fear into the hearts of women everywhere:  DEEPTHROATING!  If your lover is uninterested in the art of deepthroating, then why bother?  Well, you will love it, and she can love it too!  Deepthroating is when, during a blowjob, you allow your penis to slide down your lover's throat as deeply as you can.  Hence the term:  deep-throat-ing!  If this sounds scary and a bit uncomfortable to your partner, don't worry!  This article will address some sure fire tips to help you and her ease into deepthroating.  By taking extra care to make sure her experience is comfortable and non-traumatic, she'll be more willing to do it and even enjoy it!  So, here are 3 ways to ease your partner into deepthroating!

POSITION IS KEY:  There are positions that are helpful in learning how to deepthroat.  The idea is to make it so her throat is extended to allow your penis to slide down naturally, without encountering her tonsils.  Imagine sword swallowing!  The best position for this is when the giver lies on her back with the head positioned off the edge of the bed.  The man then stands at her head and slides his penis into her mouth and down her throat.  As the giver bends her head backwards, the throat naturally extends, the tonsils go to the side and the tongue lies flat.  Plus, this is a wild visual for the man as he can actually see the neck expand as his penis goes in deep!

LUBRICATION STATION:  Have you ever had a man try to jam his penis into your throat before you even have any saliva going?  Uncomfortable and impossible are two words to describe this!  So, you probably don't want to put your partner through that kind of hardship.  It is common sense that anything will slide in more easily if you have lubrication!  With deepthroating this means lots and lots of saliva (or, oral sex lube works too!)  Make sure that your penis is slippery wet so that your hands will slide all around easily.  She will have a much more pleasant time taking you in if you glide rather than force yourself in!

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SLOW AND STEADY:  If your partner is reluctant to try deepthroating, you want to ease their discomfort, not enhance it!  So, does that mean you try pushing your manhood deeper down her throat while she is giving you a blowjob?  NO.  Does that mean you tell her repeatedly that it's not that bad or that you try to annoy her into doing it?  NO.  That does not make for a very pleasurable experience.  If you want her to deepthroat, ask her first!  Tell her how crazy it will make you to feel your dick deep inside her warm, moist mouth.  If she is ready to give it a try, go at her pace!  Remember what she is doing here:  swallowing your penis!  That can be a tough trick to master, especially for women with severe or moderate gag reflexes.  It requires intense mental and oral skills.  So, don't just force your way in!  Give her a chance to get a feel for it and find what tricks help her take you in comfortably (such as sticking her tongue out, making "yawning" motions, breathing through her nose, and holding down the urge to gag).  Once the two of you figure out what works best, you will be in for some incredible pleasure.

Final thoughts:  Giving a quality blowjob is a wonderful gift to you as well as your partner!  Deepthroating is a bonus.  It is not something that will come just naturally, but takes time, skill and yes, patience!  Make sure your partner is comfortable and adept at oral sex before moving up to the deepthroat!  Have fun, be enthusiastic and do not be upset if she gags or cannot do it the first time around!  If you appreciate the effort, surely she will want to practice on you again and again!  So, don’t give up and most importantly:  HAVE FUN!